Backstage of Sopot Art and Fashion Week

 

Don't dress for someone else

I can't count how many times I heard the question "For whom are you dressing up so fancy?"

That made me wonder-

Are we really dressing up for the special someone 

or to "meet the needs of the society"?

Maybe in some way,

but most of all we are dressing up for ourselves.

Even if, in first place we want to impress the man we are dating

or get the job which would pay our bills

In the end it is all about us.

How come?

Cause that man makes us feel better about ourselves

and this job will provide us with an opportunity 

to keep or raise the starnard of our life

(or not to lose all our money on the next sale).

We might come to the conclusion that, in fact we are very egoistic creatures.

But don't worry, in those subconscious, self-centered actions we often do good.

Why?

Again, cause doing something good makes us feel better.

So the next time you go to your closet

and wonder what to wear to this or that occasion,

try to change your thinking a little bit.

"What to wear to make you feel better?"

Diane Kruger for Chanel- "Where beauty begins"

There is time for everything

There is a time for everything, but sometimes you just need to stop.

Stop and think.

Revise, or your "yes" and "no", your decisions and actions.

Take a look where you are.

Do you like it?

Is there something you would change?

I bet there is.

You may wait for a better times, for an opportunity, occasion.

Sure, it may come.

May.

Is this enough for you?

This anticipation, not knowing, suspense.

But, if you just try.

What's the harm in that?

What you may loose?

But what is more important, what you can win...

Dress: H&M

Shoes: Elilu

Bag: Reserved

Bow: Drogeria Natura

Photos by Michał Bażak

Give me a gentleman